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Dear mother, do not let tantrums move to you, control your feelings, tell yourself: "I have to act smart", if you lose your temper, the child will be encouraged and continue his battle.
Behavioral studies indicate that satisfying the child's desire when screaming is the main reason behind the continuation of this behavior. Once the child succeeds in using this provocative method - even once - it becomes a habit for him.
Here are a set of steps that help parents in dealing with tantrums in children, including:
First: Ignore your child's tantrum:
First, try to draw the child's attention to something else, to the sound of a bell, or a beautiful story. If he does not respond and continues to scream, do not get angry and be calm, to prove to him that anger is not the best way to attract your attention.
Second: Do not pay attention to the destruction he causes:
The child has a destructive tendency in his anger, turns his room upside down, scatters its contents, takes his clothes from the closet, throws his books and toys on the floor. The child does this to attract attention, and therefore not being bothered by this destruction extinguishes the flame of angry behavior.
Third: Do not humiliate your child:
If your child has a tantrum, do not describe him with negative descriptions, do not tell him: You are naughty. You are an ill-mannered child. This makes the child feel humiliated, and gives him the impression that he does not deserve to get what he wants.
Fourth: Do not show love immediately:
When the little one has a tantrum, and destroys the contents of his room, some educators make a mistake and rush to hug and kiss the little one, and in doing so they support the child to repeat this angry behavior!
Therefore, parents should not rock, kiss or hug their child until after the tantrum has ended. It is better to show interest gradually, and show the child love, tenderness and happiness little by little until he returns to his normal state.
Fifth: Do not play the role of historian:
Avoid reminding the child of the tantrum at other times of the day; this makes his behavior more important, and increases the chances of him repeating it, for no reason other than to talk about it.
The previous steps require a lot of calm, patience and balance. But remember that they will prevent your child from resorting to screaming and anger in order to get what he wants.
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