There are controls and decisions that must be taken into consideration when correcting children with bad morals, the most important of which are:
First: We must avoid eliminating the child's personality, as the child is weak-willed. And loves revenge.
Second: We must avoid repeatedly cutting off the relationship with the child, as this negatively affects the child. Sometimes the child is happy about this.
Third: We must stop repeating orders and prohibitions, as our orders will become worthless and useless.
Fourth: We must not accuse the child of bad morals, as this feeling will overcome him and the matter will be normal for him.
Fifth: Inappropriate words do not solve a problem, as the child will continue his behavior.
Sixth: Blame and contempt are useless and do not solve a problem, but rather make the child a nervous person.
Seventh: We must not create unsuitable conditions for the child, which would help in the emergence of bad morals and bad habits in the child.
Eighth: Uttering obscene words would cause the child to fall.
What is the solution?
Love and kindness are the solution, as most individuals with bad morals and behavior are thirsty for love and respect. Sometimes, through joking and kindness, a person can change the situation for the better.
The father and educator must create a calm atmosphere and gentle treatment through which the child can be given a lesson that will attract him to the right path.
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